Today is mine and David’s one year anniversary. It’s the one and only time we’ll celebrate an anniversary on this date since next year we will celebrate our one year marriage anniversary instead of dating.
I find it lovely and ironic that exactly a year after David and I began our relationship we put down a deposit for our wedding day. I never imagined that’s where I’d be a year ago from this date in 2008. God does lead you down some of the less expected paths when you least expect it!
Honestly, I wondered if David was worth the effort at first. He had no idea what he was doing with me since he had never had a girlfriend before. I realized that David was going to need be taught along the way, and I was afraid I’d be a bad teacher. I hadn’t exactly had the best guys as examples in the past. Turns out David was a diamond in the rough. He had all the makings of the perfect boyfriend, just no one had given him a chance in the past.
I’m grateful that it happened that way. I think we come out a little damaged in each relationship. I’m glad the damage done to me by other guys and by myself didn’t turn out badly for either David or I in our relationship.
When I reflect on how our relationship started, I really do marvel at what God does. He really works in mysterious ways and you can never tell the moves He’ll make. I’m so happy that He lead David and I to each other at just the right times in our lives. I’m so in love and so thankful for where life has brought me in just 365 days.
Now, exactly to the day we really put the first step down to our forever together.
Tonight David is taking me to Salsa in Atlanta again for dinner to celebrate our anniversary. I wish I had something to give him for the occasion. Though, I am giving him myself for the rest of eternity in just a little over seven months.
This past weekend was a lot of wedding stuff. Saturday David and I went with our parents and Emily to tour the Hazlehurst House as a possible venue for the wedding. I used to say I wanted to get married at Hazlehurst and I at least wanted to tour it and see what they had to offer.
It’s a beautiful location! An old two story white house built in 1829 located right off the square in McDonough. I had always wanted to have a very southern feeling wedding. This site couldn’t be better for that one vision I have.
Here is the description from the Hazlehurst House website:
The Hazlehurst House was built in 1829 by Abner Davis. It proudly displays its high ceilings, and hand blown window panes that show markings of what is said to be that of soldiers during the War Between the States when the house was used as a hospital caring for both northern and southern wounded. The solid wood doors, each with their own individual locks for protection against Indian attacks, are original to the house. The treasures of history found in this home range from original deeds of land, and precious love letters dated from 1860, to the housing of Alexander Stephens, Vice President of the Confederacy. Three acres of land, abundant with magnolia, oak, and cedar trees, have been the crowning glory since the land was granted to Ezekiel Cloud, a Revolutionary Soldier, in 1827. The rear of the manor is graced with a boxwood hedge garden said to be over 170 years old. Also, located to the left rear of the house is an old brick fireplace, all that remains of the servant quarters where the nanny, Achey, and her family lived. It is said that when the servant’s quarters was torn down in 2006 that Achey’s spirit moved into the main house. Hazlehurst employees working late at night say they can hear Achey humming as she is cleaning the house like she did when she was alive. The house was renamed “The Hazlehurst House” for Mrs. Cornelia Hazlehurst, a fun loving Southern Belle. From the early 1800’s to the present, The Hazlehurst House has been a home representing prominent members of the community and this legacy will live on.
David and I loved it, our parents loved it, and Emily had already coordinated her own event there for her junior prom, so she already loved it. We talked price tags and packages with the coordinator, Leslie. She was very helpful. It also turns out that someone my family knew from our old church owns and runs the House. We ran into her while we were on our tour.
After the tour, my mom had to take my dad home because he had to be at his school for an event that afternoon. David, Emily, the Coles and I went to Season’s Bistro off the square and my mom joined us after she dropped off my dad. Dr. Frank had the idea of having the rehearsal dinner there and wanted to try it out first since none of us had eaten there. We all enjoyed the food and the atmosphere. He went ahead and talked about booking it. The room we would used it called the Fall Room, so that worked out well
One thing I really like about both the Hazlehurst House and Season’s Bistro is they’re both supposedly haunted. I love that!
When we finished at Season’s Bistro, the Coles, David, Emily and I went to the lake house. The Coles wanted to check on the progress of the upstairs bathroom being installed and I honestly wanted to go and finally get measurements, get more ideas for decor and to work on the driveway. All three of my goals were accomplished that day.
Emily and I hung out on one of the swings outside and talked while everyone else did their own thing. David and I also worked on raking the leaves and pine straw off the driveway. All that stuff makes it really slick and hard to climb to the top of that steep driveway when it’s covered in all the debris.
David and I went to a cookout for our friend Rich’s homecoming from Iraq Saturday night. We couldn’t stay long because they had cats and both David and I are allergic. It finally got to us. We ended up going to get Chinese food and to World Market for some more good buys since they’re going out of business.
Sunday I had my bridesmaids luncheon with Emily, Krista, Laura, and Kris. My mom joined us as well as baby Gabe. We ate at a place called Sweet Melissa’s in downtown Decatur. It was good food and a cute place. The live band played music that was very fitting for the atmosphere. Emily filled Kris in on what we found out about the Hazlehurst House. I still don’t know all of what they talked about other than decor and food.
After lunch I went with my mom and my two maids of honor, Emily and Krista, to the Hazlehurst House for a public tasting. They had brides, clients and anyone who wanted to come there for a sampling of there food and to see how a room can be presented. It was a very nice experience and the food was great! I picked out the flavor for mine and David’s wedding cake, too. Strawberry shortcake is the winner!
Krista and I went to break up the boys party afterward. David went and hung out with Spencer while Krista and I were gone all day.
David and I went and talked to his parents over dinner later. We needed to get final decisions on different things.
Today, I met with my coordinator from the Hazlehurst House, signed the contract, made the deposit and now feel like things are finally coming together! It’s such a load off my mind!
Current Mood:
Happy