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A weird wedding tale

1 Comment // Written on Jan 15, 2010 // Death, Friends & Family, Life, Paranormal, Weddings

I had wondered about sharing this story before, but never really thought it mattered. It happened right before my wedding day, so though it struck me deeply, it was also one of the last things on my mind to think to share here.

As I was watching a TV show on the paranormal, I was reminded by a scene of a strange occurrence that happened the day before my wedding. The story portrayed in this TV show involved a phone call from someone who was in no normal position to make one.

Most people who know me well are aware of the fact I’m very interested in the paranormal. This is one of those strange things that I find fascinating, and I invite you to take it as you want.

During my bridesmaids luncheon the day before my wedding, I was emailing back and forth with my wedding coordinator via my BlackBerry. When one of the emails she sent with pictures of the bouquets for me and my bridesmaids didn’t come through, me coordinator Leslie called me. I told her I did finally see the pictures and I loved my bouquets. We discussed more things she wanted to clear up before I and my wedding party arrived at the Hazelhurst House in just a couple of hours for the rehearsal.

While she went over things, she also mentioned that she had received a phone call asking about our wedding rehearsal. Leslie said that the person asked if the rehearsal was at 1:00. She corrected them and told them no, it was at 2:00.

I asked her who it was. I heard Leslie shuffle through papers and say “The caller ID said “Janice Cole”.

For half a moment, I was speechless. It takes a lot to really shock me, but Leslie saying that name really did it for me. Janice Cole is my husband’s deceased grandmother’s name. She died before I met David. We live in her house.

Not wanting to tell Leslie she talked to a dead woman, I simply stammered out the answer, “Um, we don’t know anyone by that name right now”.

I told my mom, who stood next me and asked what was the matter, that Leslie just said that “Nanny” called. At the moment, I happened to be standing next to a picture of her in my in-law’s house. I felt rather touched that she wanted to make her presence known for the wedding of her grandson.

I told my then future mother-in-law Deb what just happened. I’m still not sure exactly what she thinks of that.

We still never really figured out how the caller ID could have said that particular name. The phone at our house doesn’t show her name when it calls out. Besides, no one was at this house at the time to even make a call from a phone here. No cell phones are in her name, and Leslie didn’t know that Janice Cole even existed prior to her conversation with her.

Just one of those things, you know? A slight paranormal touch to my wedding. It still makes me wonder and makes me feel I somehow have her blessing because of it. Everyone tells me that Nanny and I would have gotten along wonderfully.

I hope we can.

Friday the 13th, take two!

1 Comment // Written on Mar 13, 2009 // Paranormal, Suveys/Memes/Games

Happy Friday the 13th… again! We’re going to have yet another Friday the 13th this year. Our third and final bad luck day will be in November.

I love anything to do with superstitions. Friday the 13th has the bad reputation of being all about bad luck. I’ve only ever had one really bad Friday the 13th, and that was back in 1999. I was totally forgotten about by my drama teacher before everyone left for the drama competition that day. They just drove off and left me at the school at 7:00 in the morning. I was able to get a ride down to the competition, but that really was my worst experience with Friday the 13th. Oh, I did also rip my jeans while moving a set piece and smashed my finger with the car door.

Just thought I’d share. It’s a sharing kind of day.

Here’s some interesting facts about Friday the 13th curiosity of Wikipedia.

In numerology, the number twelve is considered the number of completeness, as reflected in the twelve months of the year, twelve signs of the zodiac, twelve hours of the clock, twelve tribes of Israel, twelve Apostles of Jesus, twelve gods of Olympus, etc., whereas the number thirteen was considered irregular, transgressing this completeness. There is also a superstition, thought by some to derive from the Last Supper or a Norse myth, that having thirteen people seated at a table will result in the death of one of the diners.

Friday has been considered an unlucky day at least since the 14th century’s The Canterbury Tales, and many other professions have regarded Friday as an unlucky day to undertake journeys or begin new projects. Black Friday has been associated with stock market crashes and other disasters since the 1800s. It has also been suggested that Friday has been considered an unlucky day because, according to Christian scripture and tradition, Jesus was crucified on a Friday.

I hope you find that interesting. I did. Now I hope you find this interesting:

You can learn a lot from surveys. I post up ones on MySpace all the time. Honestly, I know some of the people on my friends list a little better every time they post up a survey with their answers. I thought I’d post up one for today so you can know me a little better through my answers.

Who did you last pinky promise with?
David. We made a pinky promise to each other maybe a week or so ago.

How are you feeling right now?
Bored and a bit bothered by some stuff.

Do you think someone is thinking about you right now?
I hope so. I’m usually thinking about David, so I’m pretty sure he’s always thinking of me, too.

Do you believe in perfect?
Yes. There is perfection in the world. God made things to be perfect… we’re the ones who screwed that up.

Are you a jealous person?
Not usually. I have moments when I can feel the jealous tingles come over me, but it’s never about something you’d expect.

What was the first thing you thought of this morning?
That I could hit snooze for another ten minutes before finally getting up to get ready for work.

Are you satisfied with what you currently have in life?

Yes, I am. I am always satisfied with what I have in life, because I am blessed to have what I do.

Who were the last people you saw in person?
The people in my office building.

What’s something you really want right now?
My paycheck.

How’s your heart right now?
It’s fine, thanks for asking.

Have you chewed gum after someone else already has?
Thank God, no. That’s so disgusting!

Are you ever a freak about cleanliness or organization?
Not really. Anyone who has seen my room, my car or my office knows that I’m definitely not a neat freak.

Last thing you ate?
Nachos, since I forgot to bring my peanut butter and jelly sandwich to work. Yeah, I’m stupid.

Do you bump into someones arm if you want to hold their hand?
Not usually. David holds my hand no matter what.

Do you think that you’re a good person?
Yes, I think I’m a good person.

What made your day?
Nothing so far, sadly.

Do you give up easily?
Nope. I usually keep trying till I can’t try anymore.

Where do you go when you want to be alone?
To my room. It’s about the only place I can get to easily. I also go to Shingleroof Campground and to the lake house. I don’t usually want to be alone anyways.

When was the last time you cried really hard?
A couple of weekends ago. It was bad.

Do you have trust issues?
Not usually. I’ve had my trust shaken and sometimes broken with other people. But I always trust people till they give me a reason not to.

Your best friend tells you they’re pregnant; you say?
Well, David is my best friend so I’d be a bit shocked if he was pregnant. We’d make a ton of money off it though!

If you could change your eye color, would you?
I’d like to have green eyes, but I think that I’m pretty with my brown eyes.

Is it easy to annoy you?
Nah. It takes a lot, unless I’m already annoyed.

Do you like hot wings?
No, I like mild tenders with blue cheese.

Do you want to get married and have children one day?
Yes, I do. The marriage is about to happen sooner than I really realize.

Are you okay with making a total fool of yourself?
Nah. I don’t like to look or act foolish. One reason I don’t get drunk.

Do you have someone you can be your complete self around?
Yes, I can be myself completely around David.

Has anyone ever broken your heart?
Yes, it’s been shattered before. But it’s been pieced back together now.

How late did you stay up last night?
Till around 1:00. My mom wanted to talk when I got home last night.

Do you believe in karma?
Yes, it just means that what you do comes back to you. If you do wrong by someone, then it comes back to you in a form of a wrong done to you. If you do something good, something good happens to you. Do to others as you’d have done to you.

Do you miss anybody?
I miss my brother. But he’ll be home soon!

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What I do instead of work

2 Comments // Written on Mar 11, 2009 // David, Life, Paranormal, Weddings

I’m sitting at work making a playlist on MySpace of songs that are a must have for the wedding reception. It can’t be just any song, either. I refuse to have the degrading and just plain stupid music that I’ve heard at weddings before played at mine and David’s. We choose to have the classic and romantic melodies of Ella Fitzgerald, Louis Armstrong, Etta James, Billie Holiday, Frank Sinatra, Tony Bennett and many others.

When I think of weddings, especially in the setting our venue portrays, I think of these songs. They’re romantic, they’re classic, they’re clean and appropriate for a wedding with people there of all ages and backgrounds. Who really wants to hear someone sing about shaking their “money maker” at a wedding? I certainly don’t want bumping and grinding. That’s not me and it’s not David. We won’t even have the “traditional” things like the “Chicken Dance” or any other organized dance thing.

I just can’t find a song I want to walk down the aisle to. It can’t be the Wedding March, because I just don’t like it. I want it to be along the lines of the same artist and genre I just mentioned. I would like it to be something that can be played on a violin, since I would like my cousin to play the violin for me as I walk down the aisle.

Music is going to be so important. It sets the mood of the event. I want my guests to feel like they’re in the “good ol’ days” of the south with the gentle styles of music. I want them to feel it’s romantic and sophisticated, which means the day can’t be punctuated with thumping bass and people having dry sex on the dance floor. Not that anyone we have coming would do such a thing.

Ah well. I have just under seven months to work on this list.

Emily is coming with me to the lake house. I just want to go, since the weather just screams that the lake is the place to be. Especially before the pollen takes over later in the month. I just wish my key to the shed worked so I could get the hammocks out and chill by the water.

David is coming over later for Ghost Hunters… and to eat my mom’s meatloaf. Bleck. I’m sorry, bu meatloaf is the reason I stopped eating ground beef all together! I can’t stand that nasty stuff! Meat shouldn’t come in loafs. Ugh. I feel sick thinking of it. My mom said she’d make meatloafs for me to take home for David when we’re married, but I told her I didn’t want the stuff in my house! So, David will just have to go eat at my parent’s house when he wants meatloaf.

Tonight is a new episode of Ghost Hunters! I’m so excited! I love Ghost Hunters! It’s just nice to know there are a lot of people who believe in the paranormal and want more answers. I just wish I had a way to investigate in a better way than with my pitiful equipment. I want to investigate Kris’ house since she’s had activity there before.

I hope it’s a good episode. Nothing against Ghost Hunters International, but they don’t hold a candle to Jason, Grant, Steve, Tango, Kris and Kristen. They seem to get a lot better stuff when they investigate.

Yes, I’m a paranormal freak. Get over it, you know you still love me. :)

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True love is like a pair of socks: you gotta have two and they’ve gotta match.

No Comment // Written on Feb 23, 2009 // David, Engagement, Future, Get Togethers, God, Life, Paranormal, Parties, Relationships, Weddings

Today is mine and David’s one year anniversary. It’s the one and only time we’ll celebrate an anniversary on this date since next year we will celebrate our one year marriage anniversary instead of dating.

I find it lovely and ironic that exactly a year after David and I began our relationship we put down a deposit for our wedding day. I never imagined that’s where I’d be a year ago from this date in 2008. God does lead you down some of the less expected paths when you least expect it!

Honestly, I wondered if David was worth the effort at first. He had no idea what he was doing with me since he had never had a girlfriend before. I realized that David was going to need be taught along the way, and I was afraid I’d be a bad teacher. I hadn’t exactly had the best guys as examples in the past. Turns out David was a diamond in the rough. He had all the makings of the perfect boyfriend, just no one had given him a chance in the past.

I’m grateful that it happened that way. I think we come out a little damaged in each relationship. I’m glad the damage done to me by other guys and by myself didn’t turn out badly for either David or I in our relationship.

When I reflect on how our relationship started, I really do marvel at what God does. He really works in mysterious ways and you can never tell the moves He’ll make. I’m so happy that He lead David and I to each other at just the right times in our lives. I’m so in love and so thankful for where life has brought me in just 365 days.

Now, exactly to the day we really put the first step down to our forever together.

Tonight David is taking me to Salsa in Atlanta again for dinner to celebrate our anniversary. I wish I had something to give him for the occasion. Though, I am giving him myself for the rest of eternity in just a little over seven months. ;)

This past weekend was a lot of wedding stuff. Saturday David and I went with our parents and Emily to tour the Hazlehurst House as a possible venue for the wedding. I used to say I wanted to get married at Hazlehurst and I at least wanted to tour it and see what they had to offer.

It’s a beautiful location! An old two story white house built in 1829 located right off the square in McDonough. I had always wanted to have a very southern feeling wedding. This site couldn’t be better for that one vision I have.

Here is the description from the Hazlehurst House website:

The Hazlehurst House was built in 1829 by Abner Davis. It proudly displays its high ceilings, and hand blown window panes that show markings of what is said to be that of soldiers during the War Between the States when the house was used as a hospital caring for both northern and southern wounded. The solid wood doors, each with their own individual locks for protection against Indian attacks, are original to the house. The treasures of history found in this home range from original deeds of land, and precious love letters dated from 1860, to the housing of Alexander Stephens, Vice President of the Confederacy. Three acres of land, abundant with magnolia, oak, and cedar trees, have been the crowning glory since the land was granted to Ezekiel Cloud, a Revolutionary Soldier, in 1827. The rear of the manor is graced with a boxwood hedge garden said to be over 170 years old. Also, located to the left rear of the house is an old brick fireplace, all that remains of the servant quarters where the nanny, Achey, and her family lived. It is said that when the servant’s quarters was torn down in 2006 that Achey’s spirit moved into the main house. Hazlehurst employees working late at night say they can hear Achey humming as she is cleaning the house like she did when she was alive. The house was renamed “The Hazlehurst House” for Mrs. Cornelia Hazlehurst, a fun loving Southern Belle. From the early 1800’s to the present, The Hazlehurst House has been a home representing prominent members of the community and this legacy will live on.

David and I loved it, our parents loved it, and Emily had already coordinated her own event there for her junior prom, so she already loved it. We talked price tags and packages with the coordinator, Leslie. She was very helpful. It also turns out that someone my family knew from our old church owns and runs the House. We ran into her while we were on our tour.

After the tour, my mom had to take my dad home because he had to be at his school for an event that afternoon. David, Emily, the Coles and I went to Season’s Bistro off the square and my mom joined us after she dropped off my dad. Dr. Frank had the idea of having the rehearsal dinner there and wanted to try it out first since none of us had eaten there. We all enjoyed the food and the atmosphere. He went ahead and talked about booking it. The room we would used it called the Fall Room, so that worked out well :)

One thing I really like about both the Hazlehurst House and Season’s Bistro is they’re both supposedly haunted. I love that!

When we finished at Season’s Bistro, the Coles, David, Emily and I went to the lake house. The Coles wanted to check on the progress of the upstairs bathroom being installed and I honestly wanted to go and finally get measurements, get more ideas for decor and to work on the driveway. All three of my goals were accomplished that day.

Emily and I hung out on one of the swings outside and talked while everyone else did their own thing. David and I also worked on raking the leaves and pine straw off the driveway. All that stuff makes it really slick and hard to climb to the top of that steep driveway when it’s covered in all the debris.

David and I went to a cookout for our friend Rich’s homecoming from Iraq Saturday night. We couldn’t stay long because they had cats and both David and I are allergic. It finally got to us. We ended up going to get Chinese food and to World Market for some more good buys since they’re going out of business.

Sunday I had my bridesmaids luncheon with Emily, Krista, Laura, and Kris. My mom joined us as well as baby Gabe. We ate at a place called Sweet Melissa’s in downtown Decatur. It was good food and a cute place. The live band played music that was very fitting for the atmosphere. Emily filled Kris in on what we found out about the Hazlehurst House. I still don’t know all of what they talked about other than decor and food.

After lunch I went with my mom and my two maids of honor, Emily and Krista, to the Hazlehurst House for a public tasting. They had brides, clients and anyone who wanted to come there for a sampling of there food and to see how a room can be presented. It was a very nice experience and the food was great! I picked out the flavor for mine and David’s wedding cake, too. Strawberry shortcake is the winner!

Krista and I went to break up the boys party afterward. David went and hung out with Spencer while Krista and I were gone all day.

David and I went and talked to his parents over dinner later. We needed to get final decisions on different things.

Today, I met with my coordinator from the Hazlehurst House, signed the contract, made the deposit and now feel like things are finally coming together! It’s such a load off my mind!

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Friday the 13th and other superstitions

3 Comments // Written on Feb 13, 2009 // Paranormal

It’s Friday the 13th! Those with paraskavedekatriaphobia, the fear of Friday the 13th, are probably sitting in a corner holding a cross and keeping an eye out for black cats, broken mirrors and ladders.

Not me! I love superstitions and folklore! They are always rooted in some form of history and fact, however far the truth has been stretched. They’re a part of society and give us a bit of corkiness in the daily grind. Step on a crack, break your mama’s back. Spill salt, throw it over your left shoulder. Hold up your feet as you cross railroad tracks and hold your breath going under bridges. All the cows are laying down? Must be a sign of rain!

Since today is Friday the 13th, I thought it would be cool to go over some of the superstitions and folklore I know of.

Obviously, being Southern I have heard a lot of different old wives tales, folklore and superstitions. One long standing tradition is to eat collard greens and black-eyed peas on New Year’s Day for good luck and good fortune. The collards represent paper money and the peas coins.

Another old superstition was to cover mirrors with cloth and stop clocks when someone in the house died. It was believed that if the spirit of the deceased person saw itself in the mirror, it would be trapped there. From what I hear at the Myrtles Plantation down in Louisiana, that could very well be true. There are hand prints the size of a child’s on the inside of an old mirror there.

Obviously, there are the tales of Bloody Mary. It usually varies from reign to reign as to how Mary became bloody, how to evoke her spirit and what she’ll do to you when you do. I personally tried out the method I knew of which included going into a bathroom with no windows, turning the lights off, lighting a candle and then chanting “Bloody Mary, Bloody Mary, Bloody Mary!”. Supposedly, her face would appear in the mirror and she’d come get me. Maybe she was off attacking another pre-teen girl that night. *shrug*

Another not-so-well known legend is that of Mad Anthony Wayne, a general and hero of the Revolutionary War. One of his most famous feats of daring was to when he performed his own reconnaissance behind enemy lines at night using a reversible jacket.

Thirteen years after Wayne’s death, his son, Isaac Wayne, decided to move his father’s body to the family’s burial plot at St. David’s Church in Radnor, Pa. Isaac Wayne drove over the mountains to Erie, Pa., in a one-horse sulky to claim his father’s body. Young Wayne enlisted the help of Dr. J.G. Wallace, who had been with Wayne at the Battle of Fallen Timbers.

Wayne’s body was remarkably preserved even after 13 years. There was little decay except in the lower portion of one leg.

The men decided it was impractical to reduce the body to small packages that would fit into the back of the sulky. With Isaac Wayne’s permission, Wallace dissected the body and boiled the parts in a large iron kettle to render the flesh from the bones. Isaac Wayne took the cleaned skeleton back home in the sulky. The rendered flesh and the knives used in the operation were replaced in the original coffin and reinterred in the old grave.

When Isaac drove his father’s bones back home, legend says that some of them bounced out of the back of the sulky and littered the road. Now Mad Anthony Wayne is rumored to come back every Halloween and walk from the south east corner to the north west corner of Pennsylvania, picking up his bones. He literally had a bone to pick with his son.

Yeah, that was corny.

Here are some other superstitions I grew up hearing:

- Think of five or six names of boys or girls you might marry, As you twist the stem of an apple, recite the names until the stem comes off. You will marry the person whose name you were saying when the stem fell off.

- To predict the sex of a baby: Suspend a wedding band held by a piece of thread over the palm of the pregnant girl. If the ring swings in an oval or circular motion the baby will be a girl. If the ring swings in a straight line the baby will be a boy.

- For brides (I’ll keep this in mind)
Something old,
Something new,
Something borrowed,
Something blue,
And a lucky sixpence
In her shoe.

- Keep cats away from babies because they “suck the breath” of the child.

- If you get a chill up your back or goosebumps, it means that someone is walking over your grave.

- It’s bad luck to pick up a coin if it’s tails side up. Good luck comes if it’s heads up.

- A cricket in the house brings good luck.

- It brings bad luck for a flag to touch the ground.

- Knife falls, gentleman calls;
Fork falls, lady calls;
Spoon falls, baby calls.

- If the palm of your right hand itches it means you will soon be getting money.
If the palm of your left hand itches it means you will soon be paying out money.

- A horseshoe, hung above the doorway, will bring good luck to a home. In most of Europe protective horseshoes are placed in a downward facing position, but in some parts of Ireland and Britain people believe that the shoes must be turned upward or “the luck will run out.”

- It is bad luck to walk under a ladder.

- Cross my heart, hope to die
Stick a needle in my eye. (because that makes me believe you *wink*)

- To break a mirror means 7 years bad luck.

- If your nose itches, someone is coming to see you. If it’s the right nostril, the visitor will be a female, left nostril, male.

- Put salt on the doorstep of a new house and no evil can enter.

- The devil can enter your body when you sneeze. Having someone say, “God bless you,” drives the devil away.

I hope you enjoyed my foray into the weird for Friday the 13th. So far mine has been a mix of lucky and unlucky. One lucky thing was the arrival of beautiful red roses at my office today. David is so sweet and surprising at times! I love him.

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Weird Wednesday

No Comment // Written on Feb 04, 2009 // Paranormal

Welcome to Weird Wednesday!

Since I’m still more or less suffering from a writer’s block of sorts, I thought I would do a theme day for today. Maybe I’ll do it every Wednesday. There are plenty of weird things out there to marvel at. If anyone has a weird story they want to share, please let me know! I love tales of the strange and unusual.

Today I’m going to feature another story from the Weird Georgia book. The following is taken from the book and aren’t my words.

Mayhayley Lancaster: Soothsayer and Witch

By most any definition, Mayhayley Lancaster was a witch. Born on October 18th, 1875, she lived in the ancient family cabin made of hewn logs for most of her life. She wore short silk skirts, fancy hats, large hoop earrings, and multiple rings. Her one good eye peered from behind gold rimmed glasses perched at the end of her nose.

Mayhayley began telling fortunes by age twelve. As an adult, she worked hard and purchased rental property, owned several businesses, raised livestock, and farmed cotton and corn. She became one of Heard County’s richest citizens and even ran for the state senate. Her fame spread across Georgia and Alabama.

Mayhayley advised gamblers on the numbers they should play, pregnant women about the sex of their babies, singles on whom they would marry, and told couples if they should wed. She “found” all manner of lost and stolen property. “It’s not a learned gift,” she told Atlanta Journal-Constitution reporter Celestine Sibley. “It’s a borned gift.”

Local law enforcement held Mayhayley in high esteem, not because they believed in her special talents, but because criminals came to her to discover if they would get caught. In 1948, she was at the center of a case followed by the entire nation. John Wallace was a powerful landowner in Meriwether County. When his cattle were stolen, he paid a visit to Mayhayley to find out who had done it. Mayhayley told him it was Wilson Turner, a tenant farmer, but she warned Wallace not to harm Turner.

Wallace ignored her advice. He chased Turner into Coweta County, killed him, then threw the body into an abandoned well on his vast property.

“You killed him anyways, didn’t you?” Mayhayley demanded when Wallace returned to see her. “Death, danger, destruction!” she shouted. “The evil deed will see the light.” Then, “Run, run, the trouble’s begun. They’ll get you, too, before it’s all done.” When asked who would catch him, Mayhayley replied “A man who is brave, a man who is true, a man who is just as determined as you.”

Frightened, Wallace got two sharecroppers to retrieve the body from the well and haul it several miles to a moonshine pit. There it was covered with pinewood and ten gallons of gasoline, witch was ignited, and the body was cremated. The ashes were thrown into a creek.

Mayhayley’s brave, true, and determined man was Coweta County sheriff Lamar Potts, who became angry when he heard that a murder had been committed in his country. He dispatched his deputies to consult with Mayhayley for details. They paid the standard fee for a reading – a dollar and a dime – the dollar was for her, the dime was for a pack of dogs that lived on her land. A deck of cards was cut and the ace of spades – the death card – revealed. Mayhayley placed the back leg hair of a possum in her mouth, then spit into the fire and watched the flames and entered a trance, “having a seance with the spirits,” her sister explained.

“I see a terrible fire,” Mayhayley said. “Gone from its hiding place… men, horses, a truck, fire.”

Armed with this information, Potts searched Wallace’s property, found the well, the cremation site and some human remains.

Mayhayley testified at the trial, and her presence in the courthouse troubled Wallace, who told his lawyer to “get that damned witch and her spook sister out of here. Every time I look up, I see Mayhayley’s glass eye staring at me. She’s trying to cast a spell.” When Wallace was convicted, his disgusted lawyer commented, “Not since the seventeenth century has the testimony of a witch been allowed in a court of law.”

Wallace was executed on November 3rd, 1950, the first time a property owner was punished for harming a tenant farmer or sharecropper, and Mayhayley became a nationally known celebrity. From across the country came visitors, telephone calls, and mail, all asking for readings. Mayhayley doubled her fee, hiding the proceeds in mattresses and holes in the wall.

Mayhayley died on November 22nd, 1955, at the age of eighty, and was buried at Caney Head Methodist Church, near Rossterville, in Heard County. Vandals slowly chipped away at her gravestone until only a stub remained, although a newer marker now stands beside the original. According to legend, people who take souvenirs from the stone – often students from West Georgia University – suffer bad luck until they return the pieces to the cemetery. One student is alleged to have been killed in a traffic accident after desecrating the grave. Mayhayley’s gravestone bears a biblical inscription from John 7:5, written about Jesus but apparently applicable to Mayhayley: For neither did his Brethren believe in him.

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Weird Georgia

1 Comment // Written on Jan 29, 2009 // Blogging, Paranormal

I thought that it would be cool to share some stories from the book Weird Georgia by Jim Miles. It’s a very interesting book that covers all the different things that make Georgia “weird”. From Hogzilla and Big Foot to cursed pillars and President Jimmy Carter’s UFO sightings, it’s full of fascinating, though sometimes highly embellished, stories of all the oddities that make Georgia unique.

If you’re a fellow Georgian, enjoy a glimpse at the weird and unusual side of the state we call home. If you’re not from Georgia, don’t judge us too badly. Every state is weird in it’s own way!

Echoes of the Fish Family Mausoleum - Milledgeville, GA (former home to the state mental institution)

In the last quarter of the 19th century, a typhoid epidemic was sweeping through Georgia, claiming many lives. Many of Milledgeville’s residents buried their loved ones at Memory Hill that year. One of these unfortunate family was that of William Fish. He buried both his wife and child in the cemetery that year and found himself living a depressed and lonely life after their loss. Unable to cope with his grief, Fish entered the gates of Memory Hill one night and went inside the small crypt which held the remains of his family. He committed suicide inside it, blowing his own head off, in a desperate, final attempt to reunite his shattered family.

These days, it’s told that this act not only reunited the family, but set their spirits into a state of extreme restlessness. Legend has it that if one knocks on the door of the Fish mausoleum, there is a faint but distinct return knock that answers from the inside.

The Pillar of Prophecy – Augusta, GA

Motorists and pedestrians who pass the corner of Fifth and Broad Streets in downtown Augusta invariably notice the lone column standing on the southwestern corner. The artifact, two feet in diameter and ten feet in height, is composed of brick covered with concrete. It is the “Haunted Pillar,” and there are many who believe death awaits any who touch it. Eerie events are said to occur around it.

The pillar is all that remains of the Market, two large sheds about two hundred feet long and one hundred feet wide that once occupied the center of Broad Street from 1830 until 1878. Known as the Upper and Lower Markets, the citizens of Augusta flocked there daily to purchase food from farmers, grocers, and butchers.

In the late 1800s an itinerant evangelist visited the city (although a less-authoritative source lists the year as 1829). The eccentric preacher was described as an elderly, white-haired, stately looking man whose clear voice was ”incisive even to the piercing of the human heart,” one witness declared. It is variously argued that no church would host his services or that he disdained them. Again, the story varies, that he preached in the Lower Market for some time or that the managers refused him permission to speak or that he was run out of town by disbelievers. Whatever the circumstances, this Old Testament-style speaker proclaimed that a storm would soon destroy the Market, either for his being denied permission to speak there, or to punish the people of Augusta for their transgressions, or simply to prove that he was a prophet of God. Only the southwestern column would survive the storm, the preacher declared, and anyone who attempted to move it would be killed.

The prediction/curse came to fruition at 1:10 A.M. on February 8, 1878, when a tornado touched down in Augusta. It remained on the ground for half a mile, tearing a two-hundred-foot-wide swath through Augusta from Ellis to Market. Two people were killed and several houses were knocked down. The Lower Market was “totally destroyed,” noted the Augusta Chronicle & Constitutionalist, leaving “a mass of ruins, timbers broken, and masonry piled in utter confusion.” It was reported that the Market bell rang a single time before the destruction commenced.

Perhaps prophecy was fulfilled, but in reality the curse did not kick in until later, for the city council elected to rebuild the Market on its original site. The surviving pillar was carefully moved to the corner of Fifth and Broad, which is where the legend of its being haunted/cursed began.

Reportedly, when the street was widened, two workmen who attempted to move the pillar were struck by lightning or otherwise caused to die. Another version has a bulldozer operator dying of a heart attack while advancing against the pillar. However, a man who managed a liquor store across the street for fifty years denied the story, saying the pillar had “been moved (without injury to workers) several times because it was too close to the street.”

It does seem at least to be haunted. Late at night visitors near the column have reported hearing whispered conversations between phantoms and the footsteps of invisible beings pacing alongside them. When contacted by a reporter on the Halloween beat, local police revealed that eleven traffic accidents had occurred at the intersection between January and October one year, so perhaps the pillar has an effect on cars or their operators–or perhaps careless drivers eyeing the column caused their own accidents. The pillar seems to attract its own bad luck–it twice has been struck by lightning and been hit by an errant car.
The pillar remains a great tourist draw in the historic city, attracting individuals, buses, and walking tours. At times it seems to receive more publicity than the Masters Golf Tournament. On December 12, 1996, the Haunted Pillar received its own historical marker.

The Screaming Demon Faces of Memory Hill – Milledgeville, GA

There is a tombstone in Memory Hill which features a tall spire surrounded by an iron fence. This fence is decorated with hundreds of small devilish faces. No one is sure who sculpted these faces or why they are there. Stories are told that on Halloween these faces let out blood curdling, high pitched screams. People often travel to this grave in the dead of the night around Halloween time in hopes of hearing for themselves the strange sounds emitted from these fence-demons.

Was Dixie Haygood Waybad? – Milledgeville, GA

Memory Hill is also the final resting place of a woman who was known as dangerous and odd in life, and who continues to spread this reputation in death.

Dixie Haygood was a Milledgeville resident born just before the Civil War. Her legend quickly spread, as she was reported to be a witch with supernatural powers. She was known to go into violent, uncontrollable rages. She could lift up heavy wooden tables with full-grown men sitting on them. Local residents both respected and feared the strange, powerful young woman. The Macon Telegraph described her strange powers this way:

“It is said that Dixie Jarratt Haygood, whose stage name was Annie Abbott, had a strange ‘power.’ She could lift 4 men on a chair by simply touching the chair. She could stand upon one foot and resist the united efforts of four strong men to move her. She could lift men into mid-air by placing her open hands upon their heads. She is believed to have performed for the Prince of Wales, Queen Victoria, the Czar of Russia, and other royalty of Europe.”

According to her obituary in the Union Recorder, “Mrs. Haygood, also known as the Little Georgia Magnet, achieved a reputation as a spiritualist which not only made her well known in this country, but in many of the European nations. She appeared before the crown heads of Europe where she demonstrated her supernatural powers.”

Just before her death, Dixie Haygood reportedly placed a curse upon her own gravesite. She proclaimed that anyone who stood between the grave and the sun would be cursed forever. This legend seems to have unfairly effected the peace of the family buried next to her, the Yates family.

Each year, just before Christmas, a large hole inexplicably opens up just next to the Yates plots and swallows up a chunk of land. In some years the depression has actually consumed some of the Yates family’s tombstones. Each year the hole is filled in–sometimes even with cement–and each year the same thing happens again. Stories say that this is the effect of the vindictiveness of Dixie Haygood, and is her effort to prove her powers still work. Others claim that Dixie is so frightful that the Yates family is striving to escape being buried next to such an evil being.

Camp Creek Train Trestle – McDonough, GAMy hometown


(I first investigated this case in high school. I interviewed a lady I knew all my life, Ms. Marianne Palk. She and her husband, Dr. Palk, lived near the train trestle. She believed her house was haunted by a man who died in the train accident. Ms. Palk would experience the smell of cigar smoke following her around the house and even had it blown in her face. She was tucked in by unseen hands one night. The covers were pulled up on her and a gentle at on the shoulder followed. A gold bridge was also found in the Palk’s toilet. The following is something that I wrote for a website of haunted locations. It has since been investigated by others.)

Ghosts have been reported to haunt the area and homes where a train crashed into the flooded Camp Creek after three weeks of rain in June of 1900. The No. 7 train bound from Macon to Atlanta stopped to pick up passengers at the McDonough Station on a night during a flood. Even after being warned not to leave the engineer was reported saying “We will either be eating breakfast in Atlanta or in hell”. After traveling only seven miles from the station the train plunged into the swelled waters of Camp Creek after the train trestle had washed out minutes before. Nine out of the forty-seven on board survived. You can reach the trestle if you go north on Highway 42 out of McDonough (located 30 miles south of Atlanta) and turn left onto Ivy Edwards Rd. The trestle is right off the tracks to the left and can be seen from Highway 42.

I would love to hear any local legends or your own personal stories!

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Religious snobs and other ramblings…

5 Comments // Written on Jan 07, 2009 // Future, Paranormal

First I just wanted to get it off my chest that I am really tired of the religious snobs out there. Now, I’m not talking about people who are actually on fire for God and have a heart that seeks and serves Him. What I’m talking about are the people who think that by putting on airs of being Christian but then live a life that doesn’t reflect who they claim to be. When you get them alone they will turn over a different leaf so fast you aren’t sure who you’re talking to anymore.

Yeah, we’re all guilty of saying one thing and doing another and we all put on airs at some point in our life. We are all hypocrites and I am the first one who will claim I am. We all want to save face in front of people who we know expect one thing from you, even if you aren’t sure you can deliver it.

I just don’t like the people who use God as some sort of status elevator. Being a Christian isn’t about receiving recognition for it. You live your life for God, serving Him humbly and meekly. Jesus even said that blessed are the meek.

Also, being buddies with a Christian band doesn’t make you any more holy or spiritual than anyone else who is a Christian. Using those people to make yourself look like more than what you are or bragging about knowing them just makes you look like a brown noser, or worse, like you’re putting them on a pedestal that leads to salvation rather than putting Jesus there.

Obviously I have some people in mind when I wrote this. I doubt it’s anyone who actually reads my blog daily. Sad. I wish they would so maybe they would get a clue.

Now onto something that no one cares about…

A&E is still trying to outdo Sci-Fi Channel’s outrageously hit TV show, Ghost Hunters, featuring the long standing paranormal investigative group, TAPS. Right now Ghost Hunters is the highest rated and most watched TV show on satellite/cable TV on Wednesday nights. For people like me who have had their own encounters with the paranormal and had some hold ups about it, a show like Ghost Hunters with people like Jason Hawes and Grant Wilson on it has opened up the door to openly talking about the paranormal. With TAPS, what you see is what you get.

A couple of years ago (or was it just last year?) A&E channel came out with the show Paranormal State. The show features a group of college kids from Penn State who investigate the paranormal in their free time. I like the show overall. They bring a different approach to the table, which is something needed in paranormal research. Since it’s not an exact science, you need different takes on the best way to investigate. I don’t agree with all of what they do (mediums, psychics, holy water and some pagan rituals) but it is something that seems to work overall for them. I really don’t do the psychic/medium thing since you’re just taking someone’s word that there is something going on. I need concrete evidence, which is one thing I like about TAPS and Ghost Hunters.

Now A&E is coming up with a show called “Paranormal Cop”. Sorry, but do I really need to be paying tax dollars to cops looking for ghosts? I know it’s probably not the idea, that they’re just cops by day, ghost chasers by night. Just like Jason and Grant are plumbers by day and investigators by night. I will give the show a couple of views, but I am not sure they can keep up with the standard Ghost Hunters has put out there.

I’m sure most of you were bored to death with that. Haha…ghosts…death. I made a funny.

My mom told me today that David and I were an exception to a rule she’s thought was good for a long time now. She told me most of my growing up life two different things when it came to marriage: That I should marry my best friend and that I should know him for at least 18 months before we started talking marriage. At lunch today when we started discussing mine and David’s eventual marriage, she told me that I was an exception to the latter rule of marriage. She told me that David and I had spent enough time together and knew enough about each other to know if we were right for each other. We’ve been together almost a year now (on February 23rd) and believe me, if my mom says we’re ready, then we’re ready. David’s mom even said a couple of weeks ago she wishes David and I were married already. But that could have something to do with her wanting grandbabies. I thought she might try and steal Kris’ baby when she finally met him!

So, there’s my blog. I (along with Andy and Kris) are still tweaking the blog. Kris made the fantastic header you see at the top of the page. You know, where headers usually go. Andy is trying hard to get some of the codes and widgets to work. Me, I’m just asking questions and learning as I go when it comes to all this. Hopefully one day I’ll be nearly as good as they are.

Addictions

7 Comments // Written on Dec 29, 2008 // Life, Paranormal, Suveys/Memes/Games

I was tagged in Shawna’s blog to do this game type thing. I suppose it’s a game. She just said I was tagged and should do it, and so I shall.

The object of this tag game is to list five addictions and then pass it along to five other bloggers. The first part is easy, the second part could be hard to get the bloggers I know to do it as well.

This doesn’t have to be about the harmful addictions. You don’t have to list out smoking, alcoholism, illegal or prescription drug abuse or a sexual addiction. Just something that you feel the need to have in your life. Addictions can be a good part of what makes up you.

So, onto my addictions:

1) David: Yes, David is my number one addiction. I suppose “addiction” is not the exact right term for how I feel about David. I just love to be with him. I feel more like myself and more at ease with him than I do alone or even with most other people. He is my best friend, my safe place, my confidant, the love of my life and the man I want to be with in this life and beyond. A lifetime is too short a time to be with my David. It doesn’t make everyone happy that I want to be with David so much, but he is my addiction. I get other things done and spend time with other people, but after you fall in love, things do change. I hate that I’m made to feel bad about wanting to spend all my time with David. If we were married then we wouldn’t have this problem.

2) The Internet: It doesn’t take much to know that the internet is one of my addictions. Luckily I can pull myself away better than I used to be able to. I have made a lot of friends and had a few accomplishments while online. Plus the internet makes my life so much easier, especially when it comes to my job. My boss is always so impressed when I can rattle off an answer to something he needs before he even finishes asking the question. Google is my hero. Also think of all the entertainment, news, connections and resources we have at our fingertips now with the internet. I can keep in touch with my brother in Korea and my family scattered all over America with easily with the help of the internet. It’s easy to see why people (me included) are addicted.

3) Crafts: I am always making stuff or learning how to make things. I learned to crochet and cross stitch years ago as well as how to sew. I was sewing things (from pillows to teddy bears) all the time when I was a kid. I just love creating something with my hands. This past summer I learned to tat (and still learning) and Krista and I just spent an afternoon this past Friday finger weaving scarves. I’m especially happy with what I make when I can give them to someone else and they really do love it. I also consider any kind of graphics or coding I learn to do online a craft. Anything that I have a hand in creating is a craft to me. If I knew how to cook, I’d count that as well! To me, hand crafting something is an art that is dying out slowly. I love to look at things that people have made. They have such a personal touch to them. I like to give someone something that has my personal touch.

4) The Paranormal: Yes, the paranormal is one of my vices. I have been fascinated by ghosts and other aspects of the paranormal. It stems from me having my own experiences growing up and even into adulthood. Some would consider it weird, demonic or whatever. I am a Christian and know that there are things out there that we don’t understand and some thing we never will. God doesn’t reveal everything to us. I know what I’ve experienced and what I’ve felt throughout my life. I want to learn all I can about the paranormal and study what other people’s research has shown. It just fascinates me. Thanks to shows like Ghost Hunters on the Sci-Fi channel that have awesome groups like TAPS I have learned more and have not felt so alone in what I’ve experienced. Sharing a paranormal encounter isn’t exactly an easy thing to do. You never know what the reaction from the other person will be.

5) The Daily Things in Life: This can cover a lot. I’m addicted to good food, to Coca-Cola, to my cell phone, to playing games on Pogo.com, to doing surveys on MySpace, to using Twitter, to blogging, to driving, to talk radio, to seeing the people I love. These are all daily things that I really hate to do without. Even as I write this I am covering four addictions. I’m on the internet, I have my cell phone with me, I’m on Pogo.com and I’m blogging. Oh, add that I also have Twittered today to that as well as seen at least one person I love. I suppose I’m just addicted to daily life. I believe I have a pretty good life. I’m about to go and experience the good food addiction soon.

So there you have my addictions. Sorry they’re not more interesting or revealing.

Now I tag Kris, Andy, Emily, Nik and Toby to do this blog as well. Just please make sure you link back to me. I like more reader traffic.

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